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Jane Gayle Smith posted a condolence
Friday, October 4, 2024
I first noticed David when, one day, he entered our English class after everyone else had arrived and, as typical, quietly settled in. As he entered, a large group of the other boys in the room (among the most popular in school) shouted, "Hey, Dave!!", as though they had not seen a good friend in a long time. Dave returned their enthusiastic greeting, and the happy greeting of our teacher, with his own enthusiastic greeting ...broadly smiling, clasping their hands, and high-fiving.
My first thought was one of wonderment, "Everyone seems to really like this guy. I wonder what it is about him that makes him so special to so many of the coolest guys in school." Theirs was an unusual response for typically casual high school boys who normally smile and nod "Hello" to everyone, including to one another. My second thought was, "I would like to get to know him better. What is it about him that they like so much as all that? What makes him tick? I wonder."
So, soon thereafter, I asked him to the Junior Dance and he accepted. He asked to take me to a movie. A couple of his friends came along. He was sweet, accommodating, and friendly, yet, I still did not know anything else about him.
Within the week, my best friend (Judy Knight) approached me at my locker and asked if she could speak with me for a minute. I replied, "Certainly. What's up?" Judy, carefully minding how she worded it, said, hesitatingly, "Would you mind, terribly, if I took David to the dance, instead of you? I met him in class, recently, and we began talking and laughing ...and we learned that we have a lot in common. Since then, we have come to really like one another. So I was wondering if you would mind."
She was a great friend whom I had known since Kindergarten class ...beautiful, extremely smart, funny, and nearly perfect... and I genuinely respected her for approaching me directly and asking me for my permission first, even though I hardly knew David, at the time, and she was free to approach the matter in any of myriad ways.
I immediately said, "No, of course not." She said, "Are you 'sure' you don't mind?", to which I replied, "No, that's fine, Jude. I don't mind, at all. Thank you for telling me. I appreciate it." And I meant it. Who am I to stand between a boy and girl who have genuinely taken to liking one another?
And so it goes... they quickly became inseparable ('that' I did sort of mind (a little), albeit only because she was nearly always with him, including studying with him, and I missed my friend).
Nevertheless, I was delighted for both of them. They were a wonderful and happy couple ...which was, also, reflected throughout their marriage.
Such consistent love and respect between them! He was extremely good to her and she was so very proud of him. Also, they were wonderful parents.
Seeing how beautifully he took care of Judy, I came to genuinely and deeply respect David, through the years. I, more than nearly anyone else on Earth, know how heart-broken she is to have lost him. And I am in mourning with her ...every step of the way... with love.
You are, all, in my constant prayer. I am grateful that you were, all, so blessed to have had David in your life ...as he was blessed to have had you in his.
I, now, know him. He was a 'great' man!
I love you, Judy! I am deeply sorrowful for your, and your family's, loss. Yet, I know that David is, forever, alive within the memories of those who love him.
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Kelly Gates posted a condolence
Friday, January 19, 2018
From my very first experience with both and Dave and Judy, were as landlords. They could not have been more kind and accommodating.
But the main reason I got to know Dave and Judy so well was from the many conversations we would have at a favorite store, Pink in Saranac Lake.
So as Judy would browse and shop, Dave and I got to spend ample time chatting. I truly loved our conversations, and could talk to him forever.
There are few people in this world you can say are genuine, the real deal, just all around kind hearted people. Dave and Judy are just that. So warm, so kind. If only we could all be just a little bit like them the world be such a better place.
All my condolences to the entire family, you are not alone, you never will be. You have made way too much of a positive impact on so many lives! All the way from Florida sending sun and warm wishes.
Rick, Kelly, Lake and Ryker Gates
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Nancy Koenig posted a condolence
Monday, January 15, 2018
We are so sorry to hear of the passing of David. He was a sweet and gentle man whom we all appreciated and enjoyed so much. We are praying for your family during this time. Jim, Nancy, Steven, Grace & David ~ patrons of Eye Peek in LP
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Anja McNeil posted a condolence
Sunday, January 14, 2018
We are so very sorry to hear this.... Dave was wonderful with my children and turned the daunting news of needing glasses into a fun experience with both kids eager to return for a visit whenever we were back in town. Sending love to his family from Mallorca, Spain x
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Barbara J Hofrichter lit a candle
Thursday, January 11, 2018
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Barbara J Hofrichter posted a condolence
Thursday, January 11, 2018
So sorry to hear of this. Special blessings to his family, especially Katie with whom it was a privilege to work. Even though you do this professionally, when it happens at home you are allowed to feel whatever you feel and not have to be the one who acts professionally.
Love, B
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Gretchen Walp posted a condolence
Thursday, January 11, 2018
My condolences to you and your daughters, granchildren, Dave's mom, and Dick..Dave was a great guy..so funny and friendly..it looks like you really enjoyed life as a family..so sorry Judy..may he rest in peace..
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JOYCE AND JOHN LINDHURST posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 9, 2018
we were very sorry to hear this sad news. joyce and i are sending our prayers. we have many memories from years past. john
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Brianna & Zachary Rizzo - Lunette USA Inc lit a candle
Tuesday, January 9, 2018
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Marjorie & Cliff Cochran posted a condolence
Monday, January 8, 2018
So very sorry to hear of David's passing. I am so glad that we had the chance to meet him. I am sure you must have wonderful memories, he was such a nice man.
Please know that we are thinking of your family.
May he rest in peace.
Best regards, Cliff and Marjorie Cochran
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Lunette USA posted a condolence
Monday, January 8, 2018
We are so very sorry for your loss. Dave was a spectacular person. We shared many things in common....especially eyeglasses. Our small company will miss him greatly. We will never forget our dinner in n yc 2017
Helene Goldschmidt
Brianna and Zachary Rizzo
Jack Shepard
Mark Paella
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Ed Kanze posted a condolence
Monday, January 8, 2018
Dave! My wife, Debbie, and I always enjoyed every visit to Eye Peak. Judy and Jen always welcomed us warmly, yet it was Dave, humorist in residence as well as a professional at the top of his game, who sent us out the door laughing. His humor was of the best sort. He didn't tell jokes, at least within our hearing. What made him funny was a wry, playful, good-natured way of looking at eyes, eyeglasses, the weather, and every other topic that happened to pop up. As neighbors who have prized having Dave, Judy, Jen, Tony, Jackson, Marley, Ayla, and Harper in the community, we'll mourn Dave's departure, and we send deep sympathies to all the family. You can't replace someone like Dave. You just have to savor the memories. We wish we had more of them, but those we do have make us smile, and as legacies go, that's a good one. Hugs to all the family, Ed, Debbie, Ned, and Tasman
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Sunday, January 7, 2018
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The Hoover family in NT posted a condolence
Sunday, January 7, 2018
On behalf of the Hoover children, Tracy, Carl & Peter we would like to extend our condolences to the family. Dave came from a generation that fell between our parents and us, so my parents were his youth advisors at St. Matthew and we spent most of our lives growing up around him. He was a big backer of our families printing business and we will always remember him for his kind words. God's blessings to you all, I'm sure he's spending free time now catching up on old times with our mom & dad.
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Todd Smith posted a condolence
Sunday, January 7, 2018
I first met Dave at Eye Peek. me having good eyes, he took me under his wing while my wife Hilary was taken care of. He encouraged her to break out of her comfort zone and get into some contemporary glasses. He discovered all we were involved in and wanted in on everything. He loved and supported our Hobofest music festival in its early years with Christina and Dusty playing! It would not have been possible without everyone. He was fascinated by the Dutchtub and always wanted stories of my travels and business happeneings. He gave his highest recommendation of DC when we made the transition here in 2014. He stayed in touch and always wanted an update. Such a great spirit. Hilary and I will miss him dearly and send our love to all of you. We are here for you in DC if you need anything at all ... even to get away ... call on us! With love. T+H
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Nikki Olsen and Family posted a condolence
Sunday, January 7, 2018
Our family is sorry for your loss. You are all in our prayers! He will be missed and definitely remembered.
Nikki, Brendon, Morgan, Hayden and Antonia
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Robin and Jimmy Law posted a condolence
Saturday, January 6, 2018
Katie and family, we are sending our love and prayers. Jimmy and Robin Law
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Nicky Frechette posted a condolence
Saturday, January 6, 2018
I'm so saddened to hear this news. Dave was such a good person, my family and I will never forget the friendly visits we had at Eye Peeks with him, Judy and Jennifer. Big hugs to you too Katie... <3 ~Nicky
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Jane and Charles Carroll posted a condolence
Saturday, January 6, 2018
Dave was simply the best. Never failed to have a smile on his face. Deepest condolences to all your family.
Jane and Charles Carroll
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Theresa M posted a condolence
Saturday, January 6, 2018
Although I did not know David, I had the pleasure of Meeting his Brother Ronald (Elaine). He sounds like he was just as wonderful! My condolences to the family. May your memories brighten the sad day and your sad days shine with the happiness he brought into all your lives.
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Barbara Marion posted a condolence
Friday, January 5, 2018
Katie My condolences on the death of your father. Thinking of you and your family in this sad time.
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Thursday, January 4, 2018
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