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Milton Russell Graham Obituary

Milton Russell Graham Obituary

Milton (Milt) R. Graham, age 87, of Norwalk, CT passed away Monday, December 13,


2021 at the Brightview Assisted Living Center in Norwalk, CT. Mr. Graham was born


July 28, 1934, in Defreestville, NY. He is the son of Russell and Lucile (Tucker)


Graham. He married Gertrude Jo (Engle) Graham on June 13, 1959, at Munn Avenue


Presbyterian Church in East Orange, NY.


Besides being an exceptional husband, father and grandfather, Milt had a remarkable


variety of accomplishments in his career. He graduated from Colgate University in 1956,


where he was selected for the College All-American team in both football and basketball


despite never playing football prior to college. He was drafted by the Chicago Bears and


the Philadelphia 76ers, but ultimately decided to join the Ottawa Rough Riders, where


he played right offensive tackle for six years. In 1961 he joined the Boston Patriots, who


went on to win the division and play in the AFL Championship. Due to his strong work


ethic and gracious humility, Milt was selected by his teammates to win the Unsung Hero


award. After retiring from football in 1964 he joined the FBI as a special agent, where he


worked for 20 years. He was particularly proud of the role he played in the mid 1960's,


enforcing civil rights and working against the Ku Klux Klan in Bogalusa, Louisiana. He


and his wife Gerrie became innkeepers in 1984 for 15 years at the award-winning


Wedgewood Inn in Yarmouth Port, MA. Stemming from fond childhood memories in the


Adirondack Mountains, Milt was an avid mountain climber throughout his life, having


climbed many US peaks including Mt. Rainier, Mt. Whitney and Mt. Marcy, as well as


numerous mountains overseas such as Mt. Kilimanjaro in Africa, Mount Elbrus in


Russia, and other mountains in the Himalayas and South America. He was an active


member of the Christian Science Churches in both Darien, CT and in Hyannis, MA.


Born with an innate sense of right and wrong, Milt made it a point to help everyone he


could, stand up to bullies wherever he found them, and love his family immensely.


He is survived by his brother Donald Graham of Brookfield, CT; his three children: David


Graham (wife JoAnn) of New York, NY, Mark Graham (wife Nancy) of Wilton, CT, and


Lori Brady (husband Patrick) of Baltimore, MD; and, his seven grandchildren: Louisa,


Emily, Luca, Matthew, Nolan, William (Brady) and Grace. He is predeceased by his


brother William Graham. His family is grateful for the support, care and kindness offered


by friends and staff at Brightview Assisted Living in Norwalk, CT.


There are no calling hours. A Graveside Service will be held Saturday, December 18,


2021 at 11:00 AM at North Elba Cemetery, Old Military Rd., Lake Placid, NY. The M. B.


Clark, Inc. funeral home in Lake Placid, NY is in charge of arrangements. Relatives and


friends are invited to share a memory or leave condolences at


www.mbclarkfuneralhome.com. In lieu of flowers, donations in Milton's name to Elder


Services of Cape Cod and the Islands are welcome


(www.justgiving.com/fundraising/milton-graham).

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Milton (Milt) R. Graham, age 87, of Norwalk, CT passed away Monday, December 13,


2021 at the Brightview Assisted Living Center in Norwalk, CT. Mr. Graham was born


July 28, 1934, in Defreestville, NY. He is the son of Russell and Lucile (Tucker)


Graham. He married Gertrude Jo (Engle) Graham on Ju

Events

Graveside Service

Saturday, December 18, 2021

11:00 am

North Elba Cemetery

Old Military Rd Lake Placid, NY 12946